'cause I'm not really anonymous anymore, if ever, since all my posts have "posted by Stephen."

Friday, September 26, 2008

...Happy Ever After

I was watching Grey's Anatomy and Sex and the City last night and they were about the same thing. What happens after you get your "happy ever after?" What then? We are all searching for Mr. Right or Mrs. Right or that perfect person, but what happens *after* that? All of the fairy tales end there. You all ride off into the sunset and "the end." No. Not, "the end." What happens? We are all told that that will be the pinnacle of our lives. Happy ever after. That's what we all want, right? We want *our* happy ever after. But what's *after* that?

Well, I've got the answer.

***spoiler alert***

Life. Life is what happens after your "happy ending." It doesn't just stop because we've found the perfect person. It doesn't stop because we are in love. It doesn't stop for anything. Period. So, boys and girls...while we are all looking for our "happy ever after," it's just another part of life. Some of us are lucky enough to find it. Some of us aren't. But just as sure as the sun will rise, life will go on just the same. Maybe a little happier or maybe you just keep searching, but...

Life.
Still.
Goes.
On.

Wednesday, September 17, 2008

Dating Dilemma

Wouldn't you agree that you have to go out on a certain amount of dates to finally find a good guy that you would continue to date? I would say so. It's sorta a numbers game. I mean, I'm not talking about Mr. Right, but maybe. I've never been a big proponent of dating just to date, but there is a fine line. Right?

Well, I've gone on 2 dates within the past 4 days and I'm already tired of it. Both were nellier than I normally date. Both very nice, but not someone I would date on a continued basis. Is it me? *Am* I too picky?

Please. Please. Please direct me the good gay men.

Saturday, September 13, 2008

A Fun Quiz

This about sums up my whole life:

You Are 42% Stereotypically Gay
 

You definitely have some stereotypically gay traits. You might set off a person's gaydar now and then. If you are not actually gay, you could be mistaken for gay from time to time. Not that there's anything wrong with that.

How Stereotypically Gay Are You?
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Runner's High

I ran a 5K race this morning. Since I've been running marathons, this was the first 5k that I've ran in over 4 years. It was great to get that surge of energy that a shorter distance race gives you. I've never been a "conventional" runner. I don't do sprints one day and then hills another. I just run because I love to run. And the odd thing with me is that I'm better now than I was in high school. I've been running for 15 years! And most runners peak in their early to mid 20's. I'm 28 now and I'm running better than when I was 18!

This morning's race stats:
6th overall out of 500 (guesstimate)
3rd in my age group (20-29)
18:42

It wasn't my PR, but I was only shy like 3 seconds from it. The age group divisions were really broad, too. Usually, it's 20-24, 25-29, 30-34, etc., but they just divided the groups by decades.

Overall, I'm pleased:)

Saturday, September 06, 2008

Food Meme:)

I got this meme from Brad. I love food, so this is a good one:)

1. How do you like your eggs?
I just like eggs. Period. But, my favorite is over easy.

2. How do you take your coffee/tea?
Coffee: Cream and splenda.
Tea: Iced with splenda.

3. Favorite breakfast food:
I love breakfast food, I just don't eat it a lot. My ideal would be 2 eggs over easy, crisy bacon, french toast, fresh squeezed orange juice with pulp, and coffee:)

4. Peanut butter:
I freakin' love pb! Natural peanut butter for me:)

5. What kind of dressing on your salad?
Fat free italian or some sort of vinegarette.

6. Coke or Pepsi?
Diet Coke, but I like a diet Pepsi every now and then for a change:)

7. You’re feeling lazy. What do you make?
Soup.

8. You’re feeling really lazy. What kind of pizza do you order?
If I want to be healthy, a veggie. If I don't care, a supreme with buffalo wings:)

9. You feel like cooking. What do you make?
I love to cook, so this one is wide open.

10. Do any foods bring back good memories?
Fried chicken (friend without the skin) always makes me think of my mom. She would always make that for picnics.

11. Do any foods bring back bad memories?
Nope.

12. Do any foods remind you of someone?
French food always reminds me of my ex. Chinese food always make me think of my sis.

13. Is there a food you refuse to eat?
No. I'll try anything once.

14. What was your favorite food as a child?
My mom's spaghetti and pizza. We had it every Friday night.

15. Is there a food that you hated as a child but now like?
Mushrooms and brussel sprouts.

16. Is there a food that you liked as a child but now hate?
Nope.

17. Favorite fruit and vegetable:
I love them all. Seriously.

18. Favorite junk food?
I honestly love anything that's bad for you...I just don't eat it.

19. Favorite between meal snack?
Cheese.

20. Do you have any weird food habits?
Nope.

21. You’re on a diet. What food(s) do you fill up on?
I'm always on a diet and never on a diet. I just try to eat healthy all the time. No sweets.

22. You’re off your diet. Now what would you like?
Anything!

23. How spicy do you order Indian/Thai?
Thai hot.

24. Can I get you a drink?
Yes, please.

25. Red or White wine?
White if I'm out. Red if I'm staying in - the whole teeth thing.

26. Favorite dessert?
Cheesecake. But I like 'em all!

27. The perfect nightcap?
A kiss from a boy.